Monday, September 21, 2009

date night details

H took GF and I to dinner Friday night.  I admit I was worried how it would go.  Had a really good time flirting and drinking and trying to not care what people at the next table thought.  I am glad though, that we didn't run into anyone we know.  Barely made it out of the parking lot before GF and I were all over each other.  We have set a rule that we only mess around when we are all together, so I had spent a lot of time with her during the week and hadn't been able to touch her.  I can't even say how bad I wanted her as soon as I could!  H drove home while she and I enjoyed each other in the back seat.  It was great, like being back in high school!  Back at home, things went much more smoothly than the first time of course.  She and I got a shower together and then we all found our way to bed.  H & GF look so hot together and I love seeing him work his magic from a whole new angle.  And I really like being with her.  I still say I'm straight, but damn!  She's so amazing....
So, next morning, H and I didn't really get a chance to talk because I had to catch a ferry out of town pretty early.  He had taken her home sometime around one a.m.  All day though, he was sending me sexy txt messages and even a dirty video of himself, which shocked me because he's done anything like that.  I'm so glad he has loosened up as he has always been very proper and not wanting to send pix or anything and didn't even like for me to pinch his ass in public!  This is a lot of fun and what I wanted our marriage to be.  We are closer lately as we have a secret together and are able to be so much more open with each other about what we like, what we want.  He and I talked last night when I got back from my trip and he said he was worried he had offended her somehow because he had invited her and her daughter to breakfast and she didn't go, then had asked her and her daughter (M) to go out on the boat with him and she wouldn't.  He just wanted company as our daughter (S) and I were away.  So three of us went to lunch today and talked it out.  She felt uncomfortable without me there, but now understands his intentions, so hopefully she will be able to still be friends with him without it getting weird.  

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