date night details

H took GF and I to dinner Friday night.  I admit I was worried how it would go.  Had a really good time flirting and drinking and trying to not care what people at the next table thought.  I am glad though, that we didn't run into anyone we know.  Barely made it out of the parking lot before GF and I were all over each other.  We have set a rule that we only mess around when we are all together, so I had spent a lot of time with her during the week and hadn't been able to touch her.  I can't even say how bad I wanted her as soon as I could!  H drove home while she and I enjoyed each other in the back seat.  It was great, like being back in high school!  Back at home, things went much more smoothly than the first time of course.  She and I got a shower together and then we all found our way to bed.  H & GF look so hot together and I love seeing him work his magic from a whole new angle.  And I really like being with her.  I still say I'm straight, but damn!  She's so amazing....

So, next morning, H and I didn't really get a chance to talk because I had to catch a ferry out of town pretty early.  He had taken her home sometime around one a.m.  All day though, he was sending me sexy txt messages and even a dirty video of himself, which shocked me because he's done anything like that.  I'm so glad he has loosened up as he has always been very proper and not wanting to send pix or anything and didn't even like for me to pinch his ass in public!  This is a lot of fun and what I wanted our marriage to be.  We are closer lately as we have a secret together and are able to be so much more open with each other about what we like, what we want.  He and I talked last night when I got back from my trip and he said he was worried he had offended her somehow because he had invited her and her daughter to breakfast and she didn't go, then had asked her and her daughter (M) to go out on the boat with him and she wouldn't.  He just wanted company as our daughter (S) and I were away.  So three of us went to lunch today and talked it out.  She felt uncomfortable without me there, but now understands his intentions, so hopefully she will be able to still be friends with him without it getting weird.  

date tonite...

H is taking GF and I out to dinner tonight then back home for a little fun while the kids are spending the night elsewhere.  He and I went to lunch alone earlier today.  Looking forward to a margarita or two and a few good orgasms....

Will be out of town for the weekend (with my mother, nothing interesting) but will write about tonight's "date" when I get back on Monday...

Intros

Greetings, blog world.  Let us begin with an introduction.  I live in a small town, full of the redneck stereotypes you see on bad TV.  I was raised in a conservative home and have led a traditional life.  Did well in school, got married, bought a house, had a baby, went back to school, landed a great job.  I live just a couple miles from where I grew up, which was next door to where my dad grew up.  Things are pretty much status quo and every one knows everybody else.  Nothing has really changed here at the edge of the earth for nearly a century.  So its understandable that my unconventional lifestyle change is a secret and therefore, I am reaching out into the world wide web to find others who can share in my new adventure and maybe offer some insight.

I am a 20-something woman, mother of a six-year-old girl, married to my high school sweetheart for 8 years.  We have both maintained extremely busy schedules- I work full time plus a couple part-time jobs and some volunteer commitments.  My husband owns a successful business but is in the middle of a career change (just became a firefighter, looking a station to hire him!) We are in the same college course this semester and have suddenly found more time to talk now that we have an hour commute to school.  Over the past couple months, I have learned about his collection of porn magazines and his online subscription.  When he realized I was cool with watching videos with him, my normally quiet reserved husband started voicing fantasies in bed, then started talking about those fantasies in normal conversation....

My best friend is a single mom, father completely out of the picture, doesn't even know about his little girl.  Her girl and mine are like sisters- totally inseparable.  She loves to cook and clean and is great with kids.  I am not particularly fond of children, can't cook and have not time to clean. So she is at our house all the time.  We have all known each other since pre-school, but she and I have only been close the past couple years.  We spend most of our free time all together, out to dinner, camping, just hanging out.  

So when he started hinting at wanting to add a third to our relationship, I was thinking, "hey lets go cruise a bar and try out a one-night stand".  But one night after dinner, the three of us were talking about body piercing and next thing I knew, we were all naked and having a great time.  We spent the next few days setting rules and talking it out and decided why the hell shouldn't we improve what was already a great relationship.  She's the housewife (although she does have her own place), he and I make the money.  She spends more time with the kids than we do, but I volunteer at the school.  He gets clean clothes and good dinners and I can rest when I get home from a 24 hour shift.  She's practically a second wife anyway, she may as well get the benefits, right? 

So here we are... husband "H", best friend "GF" and me.  It feels very natural and logical to me, and I love our dynamic in bed, so I'm gonna roll with it and see what happens.